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Does your child cry when your spouse wants to hold her? Or does your
little toddler try to keep a hold of you even when you are not leaving?
Does she not want to be held by anyone other than you and throws
tantrums or gets scared when you leave? There are a few tricks to ease
any separation anxiety.
1. Accept It
This too shall pass. Your child will not be clingy forever. Usually,
the worst time for separation anxiety is before the child’s
first birthday. It might even break your heart a little bit, when he
doesn’t want to cling to you as much any more.
2. Trapped
Don’t feel trapped. Sometimes a crying baby, that will do
nothing other than hang onto you all day and all night, can be
overwhelming. You may feel as though you have too many other things to
take care of, and it would be much easier if the baby would just let go
a little bit. Don’t get angry, the baby just loves you that
much, and wants to be close to you.
3. Know You’re Here
If they even start to scream when you leave the room, continue to chat
if you have to do the laundry. You can even record messages of your
voice, singing, talking or reading a book, to help make it easier for
you and the baby.
4. Don’t Disappear
For a baby that is terrified of being left. Do not disappear when she
is not looking. Many toddlers should be watched at all times. Play
peek-a-boo with the baby. This is a great way to let your know that
just because you can’t see someone, doesn’t mean
they are not there. You can act like a ghost, and pull a sheet over
your head. For older children, you can make things like balls and cups
disappear and come right back.
5. Reassure Your Partner
Let your partner know he is doing nothing wrong. Many partners, men and
women can feel left out, if the baby only wants to be with and cling to
one of the adults. Let them know that this is just a stage too. Do
activities together, so that the baby feels more comfortable with
whichever person it is that’s being left out. Let the person
know that toddler does not love you more.
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